Why Are You in a Situationship? Let’s Talk 👀💬

Be honest. This is a safe space. What are y’all? 🤨

So, you’re texting every day, sending “good morning, dear” messages with cute love emojis 💕.
You’re going on late-night calls 📞, sharing your deep secrets 🤫, and even praying together 🙏🏾 (awww 🥰).

But the moment someone asks, “So, what are you guys?”
Boom. 🤯 Crickets. 🦗 Silence. 🤐 Awkward laughter. 😅

And then you start saying things like:

  • “We’re just vibing.” 🎶
  • “I don’t like labels.” 🤷🏾‍♀️
  • “Let’s see how it goes.” 🚶🏾‍♂️
  • “God is still leading us.” 🕊️

Bruh. Just say situationship and go. 🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♂️


Wait… What’s a Situationship? 🤔

A situationship is when two people are more than “just friends” but not officially in a relationship.
It’s that confusing, undefined, “let’s just see where this goes” type of thing. 😩

And guess what? That’s NOT God’s plan for you. Never! 🚫✝️


Situationships vs. Godly Relationships: What’s the Difference? 🤷🏽‍♂️✝️💍

1. Direction 🚗🗺️

A situationship feels like you’re on a road trip with no GPS—just vibes 🚗🎶, no destination.
A godly relationship has purpose 🎯 and clear intentions from the start.

2. Effort 💯🔥

In a situationship, one person is usually more invested than the other—sending long texts 📜, waiting hours for replies ⏳, and constantly overthinking 🤯.
A godly relationship? Both people are on the same page 📖, showing up with equal energy ⚡, and trying to be their best selves 💪🏾 for each other.

3. Commitment 🔒💍

Situationships give you just enough attention to keep you hooked 🎣 but not enough to build anything real.
A godly relationship is built on honest conversations 🗣️, respect 🙌🏾, and commitment 🤝—not games. 🎭

4. Peace ☮️🕊️

Situationships leave you feeling anxious 🤯, confused 😵, and emotionally drained 🥱.
A godly relationship brings clarity ✨, peace 🌿, and growth 🌱—with no unnecessary drama 🚫🎭.

👉🏾 If you’re constantly guessing where you stand, you already know your answer. 😬


Why Do Christians Fall Into Situationships? 🤦🏾‍♂️🙇🏽‍♀️

1. Loneliness is Real 🥺💔

Sometimes, you just want someone to text “Good morning” ☀️ and “Have you eaten?” 🍽️
But a situationship will never fill that voidonly God can. ✝️💖

2. “We Don’t Want to Rush Things” ⏳🙄

But if it’s been 7 months 📅 and you’re still “seeing where it goes”, my dear, it’s not going anywhere. 🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♂️

3. Fear of Commitment 😬🏃🏾‍♂️

Some people enjoy the perks of a relationship 💕 without the responsibility.
That’s why they say things like “Let’s just be in the moment” ⏳ (aka “I like you, but not enough to be serious.”) 🤦🏽‍♀️

4. Christian Camouflage ✝️🕊️😇

Some situationships even come with prayer meetings! 😭
Y’all are fasting together but won’t define the relationship. Please, God is not an accomplice to your confusion. 🙅🏽‍♂️🙏🏾


Sister Debby, Bro Emmanuel, It’s Time to Let Go 🚪🫣

If you’re always overthinking their texts 🤯, waiting hours for a reply ⏳, or justifying mixed signals 🤡, you’re playing yourself. And you can’t say I didn’t warn you. 🚨

A godly relationship shouldn’t feel like detective work. 🔍🧐

So what do you do now that Lovuzion is pointing out the red flags? 🚩🚩

Pray for discernment 🙏🏾 – Ask God if this is where you’re meant to be.
Have an honest conversation 🗣️ – Stop assuming. Ask them, “What are we doing?” 🤨

  • If they start stuttering 🫢 or dodging 🏃🏾‍♂️💨, RUN. Don’t walk. 🏃🏾‍♀️💨
    Walk away if necessary 🚶🏾‍♂️ – If they can’t give you clarity, they don’t deserve your energy.
  • Ghost them 👻. Let them have a taste of their own medicine. 😏

Final Word: Clarity is God’s Will for You—Not Confusion! 🎯✨

God doesn’t do confusion. If someone is keeping you in a situationship loop 🔄, ask yourself:

  • Is this bringing me peace or stress? 😌🤯
  • Is this relationship honoring God? ✝️💖
  • Would I tell my future kids to be in something like this? 👶🏽👧🏽👦🏽

If the answer is “Nah”, you already know what to do. 🚪💨

What’s your WILDEST situationship story?

Drop it in the comments (but keep it holy, please 😂✌🏾).

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